Deeper Meaning Behind Touch

What is the deeper meaning behind becoming aware and sensitive to touch?  When we make physical contact with another person who is disconnected and detached, when there is touching but no consciousness associated with the touch – what comes back to us from that other living being is the same:  detachment, disconnection and distance.

When we touch another living being with compassion, when the touch is “mindful” – what returns to us is the same: love, compassion and a deep connection.  When I say “living being” I’m not just talking about persons.

Many of you are well aware of what it means to touch an animal; a dog, a cat or a horse.  Horses, cats and dogs are no different humans; when we touch tenderly and lovingly what returns back to us is the very same delicious energy.

Let’s step down one level, for there is a deeper meaning to this particular challenge.  To what extent are you mindfully connected in a loving way to your own body moment to moment?

  • Are you disconnected?
  • Are you disassociated?
  • Do you refuse to send loving energy to every cell of your body? 
  • Are you angry at your body?
  • Are you furious at what your body is doing to you?

Each time you have those thoughts, they convey an energy to every cell of your body that is not in your best and highest good.

What happens when you touch yourself, when you hold own hands?  Is that done tenderly or is it done out of fear and anxiety?

What happens when you touch your knee?  Is that done with disconnection without any knowledge of the fact that you are touching your knee, or as you touch your knee with your hand do you do so with intention, love and compassion as loving energy is sent to each and every cell in your knee?

How we treat objects and how we treat other people, and quite frankly how they treat us is a mirror image of our relationship with our own body.  When we can become tender and loving and mindful of the messages that our body sends to us as we are touched moment by moment, by the sensations we receive and feel,

  • We will be in communion with our body.
  • We will be listening to the messages our body sends to us.
  • We will know what is required for us to move into a place of full recovery; a place where symptoms cannot rear their ugly head.

Once we are mindful and loving and attentive and appreciative of all the messages our body touches us with, we are solidly on the road to recovery.  When we remain detached, distant and uncommunicative with the messages that our body sends to us, we are out of touch. We are disconnected. In this  place of disconnection there is little opportunity for true healing to unfold. We become detached from the signals our body so desperately wants us to receive and acknowledge.

Get in touch with your body. Be receptive to its messages. Welcome them. They are giving you the information you need to take the steps that are needed for you to come into your full power and manifest your destiny.  The world is patiently waiting for you to show your full power.

Make it happen now. Be sensitive to touch. Be aware of the signals.  Become intimately compassionate with the moment to moment messages your body sends to you, for you are continuously in touch with your body whether you acknowledge it or not.

Robert

© Parkinsons Recovery

Touch

My invitation for you this week is to become aware and sensitive of touch.

  • What does it feel like to touch objects?
  • What does it feel like to touch people?
  • What does it really feel like when you are “touched” by another person? 

Each time you are touched, whether it is simply because somebody brushed you by accident or somebody intentionally placed their hand on your shoulder,  become aware and sensitive to how it feels inside your body.  Does it feel:

  • Soft
  • Warm
  • Cozy
  • Loving
  • Tender

Or does the touch feel:

  • Abrasive
  • Aggressive
  • Sharp
  • Edgy
  • Unpleasant 

Each time you are touched, step back and pause for just five or ten seconds. Ask yourself,

“How did it feel when I was just touched by someone else?” 

Turn that assignment around and each time you touch either a person or an object, do the very same thing.

“How did it feel when I just touched someone else?” 

Do the same quick assessment when you touch objects:

  1. If you pick up a fork, how does the fork feel to you? 
  2. If you are washing a glass in the sink, how does it feel to touch that glass? 
  3. If you’re holding a book to read, how does the book feel to the touch of your hands? 
  4. If you are placing your hand inside the hand of another that you love, how does that feel at the moment when touch and contact is made?

For each and every physical contact that you make, pause ever so effortlessly and briefly. Acknowledge when you pause how it feels when either you are touched or you touch another object or another person.

Become mindful. Become aware each and every moment of each and every experience.

  • Is it tender?
  • Is it sweet?
  • Is it loving?

Or, is it so quick and abrasive that it is not even noticed?

Enjoy becoming aware of touch this week.

Robert

© Parkinsons Recovery